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I feel so exhausted

Author Topic: 我 觉得很郁闷
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I feel so exhausted

lost direction of life

donn't know what to pursue

cann't see the way ahead of me

even worse

I find myself began to use to this situation now

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the more you put into it,
the more you get out of it.

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the good thing is

after typing these words,

I feel better

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the more you put into it,
the more you get out of it.

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Have a great day! [Smile]

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quote:
在这纷扰的都市里,你是否能安静下来寻找内心的自我?
别人的指责、自我的怀疑,能否抛开回到最本质的生活里?
一首歌,只是一首歌,用5分钟时间换一份安静的感悟……
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禅语

http://www.bizers.org/yinzi/chanyu.mp3
作词:引子 作曲:森一
演唱:刘雁&欧阳勇征
编曲:陆琦(杭州乐人堂)
录制:影子工作室

别把自己放得太遥远
别让简单的事太费解
很多事不值得总放在心间
没有人可以对你指指点点

哪一个人没一点缺陷
哪一个人是美仑美绝
某一天迷惘地以为被湮灭
低头看自己还活在这世间

别想得太多
看开一点一点
谁不是千辛万苦才得到一些
是理解也好
是误会也好
都不及自己对自己的感觉

别想得太难
简单一点一点
不要去太过在乎那别人的脸
是快乐也好
是难过也好
经历后岁月还是一样流泻



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蜕变吧,you'll be a new human.

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喝点白酒.
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抽两口小烟.

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不是槌的打击,乃是水的载歌载舞,使鹅卵石臻于完美.

Not hammer-stroke, but dance of the water sings the pebbles into perfection.

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大崔,老蔡,laotong,qiling:
thanks, my friends
特别感谢大崔的歌和图片,我会仔细听听的 [Smile]
老蔡的话有哲理

laotong,qiling的招我要考虑考虑

[Roll Eyes]

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哦,才看明白.
广告:
嘿啦啦呀,嘿啦啦呀,
蛙厉害口语强化班
招募教练员,

就招募楼主这样的人才. [Big Grin]

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quote:
Originally posted by hongjun:
I feel so exhausted

lost direction of life

donn't know what to pursue

cann't see the way ahead of me

even worse

I find myself began to use to this situation now

read holly bible

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that's a way of escape

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我觉得是小洪,是寻找努力的方向. [Big Grin]
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quote:
Originally posted by congyunfeng:
that's a way of escape

你最近逃哪里去了.
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不知该说点什么,洪军,这大概就是人生吧,起起落落,浮浮沉沉。每个人都在扮演着不同的角色,好了,扮回武则天,差了,扮回苏三。我们,都在各自的角色中尽力叙写完美。但别给自己太多压力,凡事更不要都硬着头皮上,先退一步,也许你会发现身后更美丽的风景。 [Smile]

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[Big Grin]

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xinxin 原来很有哲理的哈, 说的入情入理的, 受过专业心理辅导训练哈

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关公面前耍大刀了,承让承让。 [Wink]

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很理解Hongjun的心情,这是每个人都有的。我觉得如果暂时迷失方向了,就试着找一个新的目标吧。好多的幸福都是在追求实现目标的过程之中的。真的目标达到了,又该迷失方向了。

不过,不管目标如何重要,身体健康是第一位,这是我最近的新领悟。上周的某一个晚上,临睡前还是好好的,刚睡下就觉得整个房间的天花板在旋转,胃里又非常地难受。坚持了一会儿,还是起床了,想去医院又是深夜12点多了。那样的难受以前从没有过,甚至觉得自己是不是就这样会离开了。于是,突然想到,什么学位,考试,挣钱,我都可以不要,我只要健康。因为我的女儿还太小,我需要看着她长大。
我知道是我那一段时间为了什么试验,论文还有工作等,有点累过头了,心理压力也比较大。可能当时我的身体提出抗议了。

所以,朋友们,心情郁闷时就想开点。保重自己才是最重要的,为了自己,也是为了所有需要你的和关爱你的人们。

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你说地很有道理.雅柳娓娓道来的风格,印象特别深刻,还美好. [Big Grin]


郁闷是道理.灌水是硬道理.寻求发展和消磨时间的最佳办法是刚刚硬的道理.

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郁闷的时候找个可以流汗的事情做,把身体累垮,精神就轻松了。
累垮的意思可不是累坏,是什么意思我也说不清楚,自己体会吧。

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quote:
Originally posted by tongqingpeng:
你说地很有道理.雅柳娓娓道来的风格,印象特别深刻,还美好. [Big Grin]
郁闷是道理.灌水是硬道理.寻求发展和消磨时间的最佳办法是刚刚硬的道理.

我真的具备这样的风格吗?真是旁观者清啊。
[Smile] 这是属于表扬性质吧,如果是这样的话,我将保持下去。
谢谢。 [Razz]
我说的就是心里话。健康第一,考试等身外之物第二。积极快乐向上的心态第一,郁闷孤独等第二。共勉! [Smile]

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是帝,是地,不喝高不告诉你. [Big Grin]
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quote:
Originally posted by jiangyi:
郁闷的时候找个可以流汗的事情做,把身体累垮,精神就轻松了。
累垮的意思可不是累坏,是什么意思我也说不清楚,自己体会吧。



能整

这让人
怎么体会啊

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quote:
Originally posted by hongjun:
I feel so exhausted

lost direction of life

donn't know what to pursue

cann't see the way ahead of me

even worse

I find myself began to use to this situation now

一定要及时调整好自己的情绪,保持乐观的心境。有些时候忙碌着总比安逸更加令人愉快,因为咱充实呀,不是无所事事。有些事情不能太苛求,也不能好早就给自己定下远不可及的目标,这样你会觉得很累。稳稳当当,心平气和地走好每一步,总有一天你会走出迷茫滴,相信你会好起来的。 [Wink]
Get used to the situation,
but never lose your heart.
Hope you can find
the four-leaf clover.
[Roll Eyes]

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yaliu,xinyu,laocong,jiangyi,dongmei:
也谢谢你们的贴心话
我今天觉得好多了
真的
有你们
我很欣慰

希望大家都好

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红军同志,

比你郁闷的很多.

比如有些人突然没了组织,老是蓄酒,怀旧,,对以后的学习和生活充满了茫然..很正常..

我的感觉是人到了一个阶段,就应该充分了解自己,有新的计划,

但我真觉得身体健康是第一位的,如果你很郁闷,就锻炼身体吧,你回觉得会放松许多..

少上网,多投入实际的生活圈,多解放自己,别把自己跟某某横比树比---当然这是给有些人说的,不特指你..

生活很大,ON LINE的生活很小...这一背子很段,,有秒计算都不为过,,过好或坏都得过,拿出喜儿过大年要个红头绳的高兴劲来,,,

我实际很敬佩你,你平和,真诚,有包容心,大度,,这都是你的财富...

你给我发的赵老先生的短信我一直珍藏,那说的不就是我们的生活所在吗....

我愿意成为你一背子的好朋友,

快乐,勇敢,积极的面对吧...会好的,一定会好的..
把自己的目标不妨放低一些...

关爱你的老汪(冒号: 真真正正的同学之友爱)

我绝对没喝酒

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wangyong:

我在想有朋友的关心真好.发赵老先生的短信时,没想到它会这样反馈回来. 好像是预投资在朋友们那里, 等自己有不顺时,你们的投资回报就及时来了.

谢谢

你们也要开心, 健康!

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yaliu:

你的身体状况令人担心,我去年也有一次这样的情况.
多休息

你和wangyong 说的对,身体第一

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生于忧患 死于安乐

亲爱的洪君:我觉得你的状态挺正常的,现在很多人像你一样的~

'felt so exhausted

lost direction of life

donn't know what to pursue

cann't see the way ahead of the one'

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我也郁闷了一段,甚至觉得生活都了无生趣,每天无非是吃饭,上班,学习,睡觉。单调古板得像每一天都是昨天的翻板!

我最近看中国移动的一个广告,王石探险团队做的,其中有一句话,很受教育:

人生最难攀越的是自己,每天一小步,都是一个新高度!

想清楚这句话后就觉得生活容易多了,每天一小步,还是很容易找到的!

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谢谢Hongjun,Wangyong,Lining等等的真心话,我从中学到了好多。

这几天,其实我的日子也不太好过,嘴上也起了泡泡,弄得我连口红都涂不了了。这一段时间总的来说比较忙也比较累,人累心累的。不过,日子还得过下去。

为了调整自己,1个半月前开始参加了一个YOGA CLASS,希望能得到一点身体上的心理上的收获。我觉得自己很喜欢YOGA,只是有一次一边做着那些POSE,脑子里还是那些烦人的事情。一个小时的YOGA CLASS结束以后,自己都觉得自己为什么就难以达到那种忘我的境界。凡是太认真的话,有时候会很累。

每个人都有苦恼的时候,问题是如何克服苦恼,找到一个豁然开朗的新境界。和大家共勉。

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dear yaoyao,lining,yaliu
你们的话很有道理,每个人其实都有自己的烦恼,
所谓人无远虑,必有..

大家互相开解吧,这也是有朋友的福气

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quote:
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在这纷扰的都市里,你是否能安静下来寻找内心的自我?
别人的指责、自我的怀疑,能否抛开回到最本质的生活里?
一首歌,只是一首歌,用5分钟时间换一份安静的感悟……
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禅语

http://www.bizers.org/yinzi/chanyu.mp3
作词:引子 作曲:森一
演唱:刘雁&欧阳勇征
编曲:陆琦(杭州乐人堂)
录制:影子工作室

别把自己放得太遥远
别让简单的事太费解
很多事不值得总放在心间
没有人可以对你指指点点

哪一个人没一点缺陷
哪一个人是美仑美绝
某一天迷惘地以为被湮灭
低头看自己还活在这世间

别想得太多
看开一点一点
谁不是千辛万苦才得到一些
是理解也好
是误会也好
都不及自己对自己的感觉

别想得太难
简单一点一点
不要去太过在乎那别人的脸
是快乐也好
是难过也好
经历后岁月还是一样流泻


Thanks 大崔,此时此刻我分享到一份安静的感悟. [Smile]

[ November 16, 2006, 18:18: Message edited by: yuruihua ]

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洪军:每天都努力了,就没白活。想换个活法儿时想好了就做吧,在犹豫中苦恼,还不如行动。

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quote:
Originally posted by hongjun:
dear yaoyao,lining,yaliu
你们的话很有道理,每个人其实都有自己的烦恼,
所谓人无远虑,必有..

大家互相开解吧,这也是有朋友的福气

再觉得闷就看看《暗算》,看了就“解闷”了~ [Wink]
http://bbs2.beiwaionline.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=66;t=000463;p=1#000006

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