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I feel so exhausted
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Topic: 我 觉得很郁闷
hongjun Diamond Member Member # 6691 Member Rated :
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November 10, 2006 10:05November 10, 2006 10:05
I feel so exhausted lost direction of life donn't know what to pursue cann't see the way ahead of me even worse I find myself began to use to this situation now -------------------- the more you put into it, the more you get out of it.
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hongjun Diamond Member Member # 6691 Member Rated :
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November 10, 2006 10:09November 10, 2006 10:09
the good thing is after typing these words, I feel better -------------------- the more you put into it, the more you get out of it.
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cuichangrui Diamond Member Member # 8657 Member Rated :
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November 10, 2006 10:12November 10, 2006 10:12
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在这纷扰的都市里,你是否能安静下来寻找内心的自我? 别人的指责、自我的怀疑,能否抛开回到最本质的生活里? 一首歌,只是一首歌,用5分钟时间换一份安静的感悟…… 禅语http://www.bizers.org/yinzi/chanyu.mp3 作词:引子 作曲:森一 演唱:刘雁&欧阳勇征 编曲:陆琦(杭州乐人堂) 录制:影子工作室 别把自己放得太遥远 别让简单的事太费解 很多事不值得总放在心间 没有人可以对你指指点点 哪一个人没一点缺陷 哪一个人是美仑美绝 某一天迷惘地以为被湮灭 低头看自己还活在这世间 别想得太多 看开一点一点 谁不是千辛万苦才得到一些 是理解也好 是误会也好 都不及自己对自己的感觉 别想得太难 简单一点一点 不要去太过在乎那别人的脸 是快乐也好 是难过也好 经历后岁月还是一样流泻
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wangqiling
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posted November 10, 2006 12:21November 10, 2006 12:21
抽两口小烟. -------------------- 不是槌的打击,乃是水的载歌载舞,使鹅卵石臻于完美. Not hammer-stroke, but dance of the water sings the pebbles into perfection.
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hongjun
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posted November 10, 2006 16:08November 10, 2006 16:08
大崔,老蔡,laotong,qiling: thanks, my friends 特别感谢大崔的歌和图片,我会仔细听听的 老蔡的话有哲理 laotong,qiling的招我要考虑考虑 -------------------- the more you put into it, the more you get out of it.
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congyunfeng Moderator Member # 5661
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November 10, 2006 19:19November 10, 2006 19:19
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Originally posted by hongjun:I feel so exhausted lost direction of life donn't know what to pursue cann't see the way ahead of me even worse I find myself began to use to this situation now
read holly bible -------------------- My Blog: http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/1229069072 一介书生 独醉江湖
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tongqingpeng Moderator Member # 1578 Member Rated :
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November 10, 2006 19:31November 10, 2006 19:31
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Originally posted by congyunfeng:that's a way of escape
你最近逃哪里去了.
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xinyu Moderator Member # 7103 Member Rated :
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November 10, 2006 22:26November 10, 2006 22:26
不知该说点什么,洪军,这大概就是人生吧,起起落落,浮浮沉沉。每个人都在扮演着不同的角色,好了,扮回武则天,差了,扮回苏三。我们,都在各自的角色中尽力叙写完美。但别给自己太多压力,凡事更不要都硬着头皮上,先退一步,也许你会发现身后更美丽的风景。 -------------------- Hundreds of sails pass by the side of sunken ship;thousands of flowers bloom ahead of injured tree.
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xinyu Moderator Member # 7103 Member Rated :
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November 11, 2006 14:58November 11, 2006 14:58
关公面前耍大刀了,承让承让。 -------------------- Hundreds of sails pass by the side of sunken ship;thousands of flowers bloom ahead of injured tree.
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dingyaliu Diamond Member Member # 1554 Member Rated :
posted November 13, 2006 11:46November 13, 2006 11:46
很理解Hongjun的心情,这是每个人都有的。我觉得如果暂时迷失方向了,就试着找一个新的目标吧。好多的幸福都是在追求实现目标的过程之中的。真的目标达到了,又该迷失方向了。 不过,不管目标如何重要,身体健康是第一位,这是我最近的新领悟。上周的某一个晚上,临睡前还是好好的,刚睡下就觉得整个房间的天花板在旋转,胃里又非常地难受。坚持了一会儿,还是起床了,想去医院又是深夜12点多了。那样的难受以前从没有过,甚至觉得自己是不是就这样会离开了。于是,突然想到,什么学位,考试,挣钱,我都可以不要,我只要健康。因为我的女儿还太小,我需要看着她长大。 我知道是我那一段时间为了什么试验,论文还有工作等,有点累过头了,心理压力也比较大。可能当时我的身体提出抗议了。 所以,朋友们,心情郁闷时就想开点。保重自己才是最重要的,为了自己,也是为了所有需要你的和关爱你的人们。
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tongqingpeng Moderator Member # 1578 Member Rated :
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November 13, 2006 12:28November 13, 2006 12:28
你说地很有道理.雅柳娓娓道来的风格,印象特别深刻,还美好. 郁闷是道理.灌水是硬道理.寻求发展和消磨时间的最佳办法是刚刚硬的道理.
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dingyaliu Diamond Member Member # 1554 Member Rated :
posted November 13, 2006 17:18November 13, 2006 17:18
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Originally posted by tongqingpeng:你说地很有道理.雅柳娓娓道来的风格,印象特别深刻,还美好. 郁闷是道理.灌水是硬道理.寻求发展和消磨时间的最佳办法是刚刚硬的道理.
我真的具备这样的风格吗?真是旁观者清啊。 这是属于表扬性质吧,如果是这样的话,我将保持下去。 谢谢。 我说的就是心里话。健康第一,考试等身外之物第二。积极快乐向上的心态第一,郁闷孤独等第二。共勉!
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yindongmei Diamond Member Member # 6908 Member Rated :
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November 13, 2006 19:44November 13, 2006 19:44
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Originally posted by hongjun:I feel so exhausted lost direction of life donn't know what to pursue cann't see the way ahead of me even worse I find myself began to use to this situation now
一定要及时调整好自己的情绪,保持乐观的心境。有些时候忙碌着总比安逸更加令人愉快,因为咱充实呀,不是无所事事。有些事情不能太苛求,也不能好早就给自己定下远不可及的目标,这样你会觉得很累。稳稳当当,心平气和地走好每一步,总有一天你会走出迷茫滴,相信你会好起来的。 Get used to the situation, but never lose your heart. Hope you can find the four-leaf clover. --------------------Life is a short journey, so I should make good use of time to do whatever I really want to do. Without me, the world is still the world, but since the world has me, it becomes more colorful. MSN: judyydm@hotmail.com
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hongjun Diamond Member Member # 6691 Member Rated :
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November 14, 2006 11:55November 14, 2006 11:55
yaliu,xinyu,laocong,jiangyi,dongmei: 也谢谢你们的贴心话 我今天觉得好多了 真的 有你们 我很欣慰 希望大家都好 -------------------- the more you put into it, the more you get out of it.
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wangyong Diamond Member Member # 1275 Member Rated :
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November 14, 2006 13:32November 14, 2006 13:32
红军同志, 比你郁闷的很多. 比如有些人突然没了组织,老是蓄酒,怀旧,,对以后的学习和生活充满了茫然..很正常.. 我的感觉是人到了一个阶段,就应该充分了解自己,有新的计划, 但我真觉得身体健康是第一位的,如果你很郁闷,就锻炼身体吧,你回觉得会放松许多.. 少上网,多投入实际的生活圈,多解放自己,别把自己跟某某横比树比---当然这是给有些人说的,不特指你.. 生活很大,ON LINE的生活很小...这一背子很段,,有秒计算都不为过,,过好或坏都得过,拿出喜儿过大年要个红头绳的高兴劲来,,, 我实际很敬佩你,你平和,真诚,有包容心,大度,,这都是你的财富... 你给我发的赵老先生的短信我一直珍藏,那说的不就是我们的生活所在吗.... 我愿意成为你一背子的好朋友, 快乐,勇敢,积极的面对吧...会好的,一定会好的.. 把自己的目标不妨放低一些... 关爱你的老汪(冒号: 真真正正的同学之友爱) 我绝对没喝酒 -------------------- I am a fresher on BEC Higher Further Education.
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hongjun Diamond Member Member # 6691 Member Rated :
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November 14, 2006 14:56November 14, 2006 14:56
wangyong: 我在想有朋友的关心真好.发赵老先生的短信时,没想到它会这样反馈回来. 好像是预投资在朋友们那里, 等自己有不顺时,你们的投资回报就及时来了. 谢谢 你们也要开心, 健康! -------------------- the more you put into it, the more you get out of it.
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hongjun Diamond Member Member # 6691 Member Rated :
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November 14, 2006 15:00November 14, 2006 15:00
yaliu: 你的身体状况令人担心,我去年也有一次这样的情况. 多休息 你和wangyong 说的对,身体第一 -------------------- the more you put into it, the more you get out of it.
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mayaoyao Diamond Member Member # 6798 Member Rated :
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November 14, 2006 16:03November 14, 2006 16:03
生于忧患 死于安乐 亲爱的洪君:我觉得你的状态挺正常的,现在很多人像你一样的~ 'felt so exhausted lost direction of life donn't know what to pursue cann't see the way ahead of the one' -------------------- ☆ To be, or not to be: that is the question ☆
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dingyaliu Diamond Member Member # 1554 Member Rated :
posted November 16, 2006 09:04November 16, 2006 09:04
谢谢Hongjun,Wangyong,Lining等等的真心话,我从中学到了好多。 这几天,其实我的日子也不太好过,嘴上也起了泡泡,弄得我连口红都涂不了了。这一段时间总的来说比较忙也比较累,人累心累的。不过,日子还得过下去。 为了调整自己,1个半月前开始参加了一个YOGA CLASS,希望能得到一点身体上的心理上的收获。我觉得自己很喜欢YOGA,只是有一次一边做着那些POSE,脑子里还是那些烦人的事情。一个小时的YOGA CLASS结束以后,自己都觉得自己为什么就难以达到那种忘我的境界。凡是太认真的话,有时候会很累。 每个人都有苦恼的时候,问题是如何克服苦恼,找到一个豁然开朗的新境界。和大家共勉。
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hongjun
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posted November 16, 2006 12:01November 16, 2006 12:01
dear yaoyao,lining,yaliu 你们的话很有道理,每个人其实都有自己的烦恼, 所谓人无远虑,必有.. 大家互相开解吧,这也是有朋友的福气 -------------------- the more you put into it, the more you get out of it.
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yuruihua Diamond Member Member # 7187 Member Rated :
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November 16, 2006 18:16November 16, 2006 18:16
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在这纷扰的都市里,你是否能安静下来寻找内心的自我? 别人的指责、自我的怀疑,能否抛开回到最本质的生活里? 一首歌,只是一首歌,用5分钟时间换一份安静的感悟…… 禅语http://www.bizers.org/yinzi/chanyu.mp3 作词:引子 作曲:森一 演唱:刘雁&欧阳勇征 编曲:陆琦(杭州乐人堂) 录制:影子工作室 别把自己放得太遥远 别让简单的事太费解 很多事不值得总放在心间 没有人可以对你指指点点 哪一个人没一点缺陷 哪一个人是美仑美绝 某一天迷惘地以为被湮灭 低头看自己还活在这世间 别想得太多 看开一点一点 谁不是千辛万苦才得到一些 是理解也好 是误会也好 都不及自己对自己的感觉 别想得太难 简单一点一点 不要去太过在乎那别人的脸 是快乐也好 是难过也好 经历后岁月还是一样流泻
Thanks 大崔,此时此刻我分享到一份安静的感悟. [ November 16, 2006, 18:18: Message edited by: yuruihua ] -------------------- There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.(Mother Teresa)
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马岚 Silver Member Member # 7373 Member Rated :
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November 22, 2006 00:02November 22, 2006 00:02
洪军:每天都努力了,就没白活。想换个活法儿时想好了就做吧,在犹豫中苦恼,还不如行动。 -------------------- Email:lanlan0321@hotmail.com
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