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yuzeren
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看到同学们都在论坛上写日记,很羡慕。我也开个天地写一下我儿子吧。我希望可以有老师或同学帮忙传授一下教育小孩子的经验,也提高一下英语写作水平。
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2006年11月6日
I have a ten years old boy,his name is Liminfang.He is a very naughty boy,dosen't pay his attention to study.
when we told about our child,It was often made me shy.When he was in grade 2,he didn't so bad in study.but,his report is decline when he is in grade 3.
I don't know the real reason,but I feel so diapporanted!
every parent wants their children are excellent.how can I do?

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2006年11月20日
That day,after I had back home my son run to me"mam.I got some good scores and a bad score on my middle semester exam."
"I got 91 in math,98 in English.""than how ablut Chinese?"I asked.
"47."
Oh! my god,I know he is not good at Chinese but I can't believe he got so low score!
How can I do with him?beating or abuse?I didn't do that.Maybe I didn't pay much attention on him.So next time,I have to let him recite every text! but sometimes I found him didn't use his mind at all!

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2006年12月5日
MY son's teacher sent messagers to me,She wanted me to help my son to dictate the new words.I let my son to write down the words on paper,but he could only wrote three simple words.than i let he to write the words that he couldn't soelling 10 times,but he still couldn't spelling them later.
I felt a little frustration.Last time when we did the same things,I just thought that's he didn't use his heart.but this time I knew he was tried his best.
I told him"All my fault,I didn't creat you smart!"
as you know he often blamed it on me!

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Icon 1 posted December 06, 2006 01:06      Profile for congyunfeng           Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
My daughter is 12 years old. She is more or less the same as your son in her study. [Wink]

She gets up at 6.30 in the morning from Monday to Friday, but she usually begin to play online games on the computer at 5.00 in Saturday and Sunday. [Frown]

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congyunfeng,thank for your post!I know mybe they are too young,don't know the study's meaning.and they only children,that's time for playing.
I will take it for easy!thank you!

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It is certainly sort of relaxing for kids to play day to day, but my daughter is in grade five at primary school. She is too young to study, not to learn ba~~~ [Razz]

Playing while learning~~~~ [Big Grin]

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群众是真正的英雄,而我们自己则往往是幼稚可笑的,不了解这一点,就不能得到起码的知识。

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2006年12月13日
My son's maths teacher sent messages too,the students had an exam in maths today,the average mark was 95.5.I was worrying about my son,I didn't know what score he could get.Maybe 85,maybe 80.
When I went home,I asked my husband about my son's exam."he got 100!he want a hamburger as a prize!"
It's a good news for me,even I have to buy ten hamburgers!I am so happy.It was a long time since he got his laster 100.

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Good news!

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Each child has his strong suit. [Big Grin]

//one's strong suit// n.特长, 优点

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Icon 1 posted December 14, 2006 19:07      Profile for congyunfeng           Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
I can't agree you more. [Smile]


群众是真正的英雄,而我们自己则往往是幼稚可笑的,不了解这一点,就不能得到起码的知识。

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Thanks everybody!thank you!
We must trust our children,let they get more confidences,encourage they to do their best!
He was let me got more confidences too!^-^

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Icon 1 posted December 15, 2006 11:45      Profile for liaoshengping           Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
posted December 15, 2006
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He was let( [Eek!] )me got more confidences( [Confused] ) too!^-^
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一句话出现两个动词了,有语法错误呵.请修改一下吧.
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另外 //confidence// n. <在这里为不可数名词>

▶FEELING SOMEBODY/SOMETHING IS GOOD◀
[uncountable] the feeling that you can trust someone or something to be good, work well, or produce good results

1.Our first priority is to maintain the customer's confidence in our product.
2.The survey reveals a general lack of confidence in the police.
3.She had complete confidence in the young nurse.

[Cool] 第二句也有语法错误呢,我提示一下:1.代词用错了.2.句子中用逗号是不恰当的,后两个动词应当用分词形式来组成完整的句子. [Smile]

[ December 15, 2006, 14:42: Message edited by: liaoshengping ]

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[Smile]


群众是真正的英雄,而我们自己则往往是幼稚可笑的,不了解这一点,就不能得到起码的知识。

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第三句:
He let me got more confidence too.
第二句后半句
encouraging they doing their best.前半句不会改了。能不能这样说:
We should trust own child let them maintain their confidence.

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我自己觉得语法一团糟。大家看了不要笑啊
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不好意思!周末是我专门陪孩子的两天,所以把全部的时间都给他(我宝宝刚2岁),所以这两天没能上论坛.

第三句改为:
He has let me get more confidence too.(应该用完成时态)
第二句改为:
We should trust our children to let them get more confidence and to encourage them to do their best! (用不定式连接后两个动词)

[Big Grin]

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quote:
Originally posted by yuzeren:
我自己觉得语法一团糟。大家看了不要笑啊

大家分享的是你的经历和感受, 语法的问题倒在其次.

一切都会好的. [Smile]

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群众是真正的英雄,而我们自己则往往是幼稚可笑的,不了解这一点,就不能得到起码的知识。

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严重同意!

大家都是一步一步慢慢进步的.

其实你现在就在进步呢! [Smile]

因为喜欢你描述的你和你的孩子,所以希望看到你更多的日记.

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12月23日
It was a long time haven't go to forum.Because I have to preparing the exam.The final exams are approching!
So many materials have to reviw, Maybe exams are as hard to me as to my son.but he has less stress than me.he doesn't worry about anything,except the punishment "forbidding go to countryside and see TV"
He will say:"Don't see TV is good news for me because I can play game by myself!" but I know how the cartons attract him.

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我比较期待这个“烦恼”的继续,但是更希望Yu Zeren同学考个好成绩。

关于儿童心理学和青少年教育的话题,我老是忍不住想得啵。

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[Big Grin] 有您嘛事.

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1月5日
I think I should relax now. The examination was over,I needn't go to study untill 11 every night,at least I can go to bed at 10.
But my son's exams are also approaching,that's mean I have to pay my attention to his study now.
His teachers send messages everyday,his English teacher let me help him on words and sentences recite.Math teacher want me help him think about
real questions.I don't know if the parents nowdays real need pay so much attention on our children's study?But most parents do so.
That's seen I will fight for another goal now,maybe tomorrow!

[ January 05, 2007, 22:28: Message edited by: yuzeren ]

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1月7日
Today is Sunday. After houseworking,I told my son:"honey,it's time for you review lesson now.your exams are approaching too."
"Would you please let me play a all day?don't disturb me!"
"Just let it be!"my husband said.oh!I couldn't find a word.so let him be!
"You must recite your lesson tomorrow!"I said.
"Ok,mam."I found a little comfort finally.

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Interesting!

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Enjoy your sharing.

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1月8日
After he has finish his homework,I told him to recite Chinese lesson.He obeyed order,didn't say anything.Sometime I felt he is good boy,he can accept my suggestions.but sometime...
I knewn that's really him,maybe always obey couldn't built his all characters.he should has his own idea and oppinions.
His performance is not so bad.he can recite most text,but not so fluently."Good job!my boy!"
He smiled,cheerfully.Looked so happy!

[ January 09, 2007, 17:52: Message edited by: yuzeren ]

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1月10日
My son did good job on dictate new words yesterday,but that puzzled me.Because I didn't sit by his side.
I can't believe he could do such goodjob.today I did exercise by his side,read the new words,and he had many mistakes in his job.
"Why today you make so much mistakes?"I asked,"But you have done very well yesterday?"
He smiled guilefully.I knew he must play a trick on me.
"You tricked me,but also tricked yourself!"I didn't know if he knew the really reason,but he showed me what he had done.He wrote the new words on the bottom of paper.than he copied the new words when I read it!
Oh!my god!I have no idea about my son.

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