10件小事让你不拼颜值却也窈窕淑女

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关关雎鸠,在河之洲。窈窕淑女,君子好逑。你眼中的窈窕淑女是酱紫的

 

还是赫本(Audrey Hepburn)那深入人心的典雅清纯的形象,酱紫的:

 

不论你是哪一款,今天小编帮你细数一下能让你不靠颜值,也能让你成为窈窕淑女的10条细则:

1. Dress the part

着装得体

Your appearance is the thing people see first. They look at your clothes, hair, shoes, etc. They make assumptions about you before you even open your mouth. If you want to impress people, dress for the occasion. Take time to get ready in the morning.

外表是人们最先看到的。他们会观察你的衣着,头发,鞋子等等。甚至在你开口之前他们就会对你作出设想。如果你想要给对方留下深刻印象,着装要适合场合。早上花费一点时间做准备。

2. Be on time

准时

If you’re late for something, you’re giving someone the opportunity to judge you without you even being there. If you say you’re going to be somewhere at a certain time, then be there at that time. Waiting for someone when they should already be there is frustrating and annoying.

如果迟到了,你就给了别人在你露面之前对你做出判断的机会。如果你说了要在特定的时间到达某个地方,一定要准时。等待一个本该如期而至的人是非常沮丧,非常烦恼的。

3. Don’t break your promises

切勿食言

There are too many people out there making promises they know they can’t keep. They promise something because it makes the other person feel better in that moment. The problem with that is that down the road, when you don’t follow through, the comfort that person felt turns into discouragement, frustration and even anger. If you can’t keep a promise, don’t make it. If you do make a promise, do everything you can to keep it.

许多人明知自己做不到,却依然做出承诺。他们承诺某些事情是因为当时会让对方觉得不错。这样做带来的问题是,当你难以兑现承诺的时候,对方之前的舒服就会变成失望,沮丧,甚至愤怒。如果你不能兑现,那就不要承诺。既然承诺了,就要尽最大努力遵守。

4. Respect others

尊重他人

This includes your elders, minors, co-workers, family members, etc. This can be hard when you have to be around someone who has differing opinions than you, or who acts in a way you don’t approve of. But you can still be civil. If you look for attributes you respect in people, you will find them.

包括年长者,年幼者,同事,家人等等。如果对方和你意见不合,或者你不赞同他们的行为方式,尊重他们尤其困难。但是你仍然可以有礼貌地对待他们。如果你希望留下尊重他人的好印象,你会得偿所愿。

5. Be involved

积极参与

If you support going green, then go green in your life. If you support your local government, then attend community meetings. Be a part of the things that matter to you.

如果你支持环保,生活中就要注意环保。如果你支持当地政府,那就参加社区会议。如果某些事情对你来说比较重要,那就成为其中的一部分。

6. Say, “Please,” and, “Thank you,” often

常说“请”,“谢谢”等礼貌用语

These are small words, but they go a long way. Expressing your gratitude to people, even for the smallest acts of kindness, shows that you see the good in people; it shows that you pay attention to the things people around you are doing and saying.

这些都是微不足道的词语,却大有帮助。向人们表达你的感激,哪怕是为了最小的善举,这样表明你看到了人性中善良的地方,你注意到了周围人所说所做的事情。

7. Smile often

经常微笑

Smiles are contagious. If a stranger walks past you at the store and smiles, it is a natural response to smile back. Seeing someone smile can remind others that there are things to be grateful for, that life is fun and exciting.

笑是可以传染的。如果在商场路过你身边的一位陌生人向你微笑,自然的反应就是回以微笑。看到别人微笑可以提醒他人,生活中有值得感恩的事情,生活是充满乐趣,激动人心的。

8. Don’t be constantly using your phone

不要经常使用手机

When you are with someone, be with them. Phones are an amazing piece of technology. But they are also a distraction. Use your phone when it’s appropriate. You don’t need it out every second of every day.

当你和某人在一起的时候,专心陪伴他们。手机是一项了不起的技术。但是也容易使人分心。在恰当的时候使用手机。你不需要分分秒秒都抱着手机。

9. 个人卫生不是选择,而是要求

Have breath mints handy. Wear deodorant. Brush your teeth. Wear clean clothes. These are things that should be common sense, but some people really struggle with them. Talking to someone with bad breath is gross. It’s distracting. All you can think about is that you want to give them a mint. Take care of your personal hygiene and people will be more focused on what you’re saying and doing instead of how you smell.

随身携带口香糖。喷洒除臭剂。刷牙。穿干净的衣服。这些都是常识,但是有些人却做不到。跟有口臭的人说话是非常令人厌恶的,容易使人分心。徘徊在你脑海中的都是想给他一片口香糖。注意个人卫生,人们才更容易关注你的所说所做,而不是你的口气。

10. Speak clearly and make eye contact

口齿清晰,眼神交流

Let the person you're talking to know that you are engaged in the conversation and that you care about what you’re discussing. Don’t mumble or look around, keep your focus on them.

让和你对话的人知道你积极参与对话,你关心正在讨论的内容。不要口齿不清,左顾右盼,注意力集中在对方身上。

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