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【校友故事】丨赵芳:“一心欲识东西事,两耳静听风雨声”

发布时间: 2024-07-29 08:39    来源: 北外网院
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至今我还留着当初入学时北外网院所发的小册子。小册子的封面,有一句醒目的中英对照的话:


北外网院-“全人”教育的摇篮 Cradle of a Whole-person


那时我也许还没能深刻体会到什么是“全人“教育,但是一旦进了北外这个摇篮,很快我就要面对人生新的挑战。




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缘起-为何选择到北外网院学习英语?



入学那年我刚刚过了35岁生日。因为头一年因公出差去欧洲的经历,痛感在异国他乡语言不通的困窘,回来后决定开始捡拾起自大学毕业已经丢了十几年的英语,一是解决由来已久的哑巴英语问题;二是我素来喜欢文学,学好英语能够令我无障碍地阅读英文原著;三是为孩子成长考虑,我深信身教胜于言传。


一个搞外事工作的同事推荐了北外网院。她是网院的老学员,当年她考察过几个名校的英语远程教育情况,后来决定选择了北外网院就读。


我又实地去到北外网院总部(当时还在西校区内的那个小楼)咨询了相关情况和报名要求,回家与家人商量后并得到家人的支持。就这样,我与刚上一年级的孩子约定,两个人同时开始英语学习,最后看一看都获得了哪些进步。



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挑战-接受“全人”教育: 

时间管理,终生学习,完善自我


我本科是学通信工程的,毕业后一直在大型国企工作,从通信工程安装、通信系统管理、通信监控系统和数据网络系统建设,直到后来做通信系统设计,几乎涉及了这个行业的各个方面。通信信息技术的日新月异需要我在工作中不断地学习,正是这种学习能力给了我重新捡拾英语的信心。


那时我在单位担任设总,为了赶工程设计进度,经常会与我的小团队通宵加班。先生工作更忙,经常出差外地,所以我就承担了送孩子上学和参加各种课外班的任务。再加上平时北外网院的在线学习和每周末到校的全天高强度面授课,时间管理就显得尤其关键。


这正是锻炼“全人”能力的时刻。 身兼多重角色的我,受益于网院与国际教育接轨的“全人”教育先进理念,学长们的言传身教教会我如何进行时间管理,主要是如何充分利用各种碎片时间,还有授课老师的指导和助学中心老师的督促和支持。所有这一切令我很快便进入了我的各种角色,辛苦并快乐着。


每天都有新的东西要学习。 一早开车送孩子上学,然后去上下班的途中,可以练习英语听力;午间休息时,也可以看会儿书(夏天很累了就打个盹);送孩子上课外班时,等待间隙正好在车里看书做作业;晚上辅导完孩子作业后,才真正有了属于自己的学习时间。


这段睡前时间除了看书做作业等,还有一个重要的任务,就是参加“网院之声”节目(VOICE OF BEIWAIONLINE,简称VOB)。


VOB是网院于2002年启动的实时语音课堂系统, 老师和同学平时可以通过VOB进行实时语音交流。这对于我们这些在职学员来说是极其便捷的学习方式,因为即便出差在外,只要带着笔记本电脑,接上网络,就可以参加节目,开启学习模式。


这也是我们练习口语的好机会。 那时我和另外几个同学在VOB里建立了一个学习小组,我兼任主持人。每期需要提前选好一个话题供大家讨论,有时在讨论环节,还没睡觉的孩子会过来听着我说带口音的英语, 好奇地 问我在说什么。我会暂时关麦回答他的问题,然后催促他赶紧去睡觉,并叮嘱他我们两个要相互支持。孩子虽不情愿,但每次还是乖乖地回自己的房间。


虽然兼职学习的我们,不能像在校学生那样有更多的时间去进行听说读写的技能训练,但是我的进步也是很迅速的。


在网院学习完第一年的听说读写技能课程模块后(模块设计正是网院课程设计的一大特色),为了检验一下自己的学习效果, 我在当年底报名参加了雅思考试(IELTS),结果平均考了6.5分,其中听力6.5,读和写都是7分,只有口语6分。




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收获-开拓眼界,完善自我


后来,在国外的学习证明了我的担忧是不存在的。那些艰苦又新奇的求学日子里,我不仅完成了我的学业,还拿到了一等荣誉硕士学位(平均成绩须达到A-以上)。同时,也没有错过孩子的成长。


那一年里我来回背着沉重的书本和作业飞了十万多公里,写了十多万字的大小paper,当然也没忘了在紧张的学习之余也忙中偷闲,去体验异域风情、当地的多元文化、风土人情和美食美酒。


我对葡萄酒一直很感兴趣,当地正好有个著名的葡萄酒产区。所以我利用一个小假期联系预约去了酒庄,与来自世界各地的摘客们(也是第一次知道摘葡萄的人英文名为picker)一起帮助采摘葡萄。


那次经历使我知道了,什么样的葡萄才适合采摘下来用于酿酒,另外还详细了解了酒庄的葡萄酒酿造流程。当然,我也品尝了酒庄自产的美食与美酒。虽然劳动一天下来很累,但是能做自己感兴趣的事,一点也不觉得苦。


没有我在北外网院的英语学习,我是不可能出国留学,去做自己喜欢的类似事情的。


保持对这个世界的好奇,坚持终生学习,便觉得生活中的每一天都是新的。


所以,每当有久未见面的朋友问我,你怎么会忽然想到离职去国外学习影视和媒体研究呢?我都难以回答,因为,这不是一句话可以说清楚的。


今天正好借此机会,写下这其中的种种,是一个回答,也是回顾和总结。


如果非要用一句话来回答,我想应该是:这一切都是因为当初的一个选择。


参加影视展工作



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一直以来,我都很庆幸当初选择了北外网院,因为在这里,遇见了一群具有敬业精神和开阔视野的老师们。


爱因斯坦曾经说过,教育就是当一个人把在学校所学全部忘光之后剩下的东西(Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything one has learned in school.)。 


于我而言,在北外网院英语的听说读写技能训练和英语语言文化的知识掌握只是一部分的收获,更重要的收获还是爱因斯坦所谓的“教育”--多年以后,即使我忘了当初所学的一切,依然会记得网院一直倡导的“全人”教育”。


这些理念贯穿并影响了我的生活,从那时到今天并将在未来继续如此。


今天在写此文时,正巧看到了网院的小册子上所写的爱尔兰诗人叶芝的一句名言:

教育不是注满一桶水,而且点燃一把火 (Education is not the filling of a pail but the lighting of a fire.)


还有美国心理学家安吉尔.J.的一句话:


教育最主要的目的,不是教你挣得面包,而是使每一口面包都香甜 (The primary purpose of education is not to teach you to earn your bread,but to make every mouthful of sweeter.)。


回想我在北外网院的经历,我想我是受到了真正的教育。


感恩遇见。





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注:文章标题源自笔者本人在今年三八节时有感于在北外网院经历所作《鹧鸪天 . 三八节书怀》:


岁久未忘当日情。相逢自是缘美名。

一心欲识东西事,两耳静听风雨声。

 

桃李盛,芷兰荣。德音不忘赖传承。

又蒙师友绸缪意,独自思量感不胜。



赵芳同学撰写的英文版本

向下滑动阅览


" With all my heart, I am keen to see the world;

With my ears, I am eager to listen to the world."

--My story of English Learning at BeiwaiOnline


By Zhao Fang,2005 Class

March,18th,2021


To this day,I still keep the pamphlet issued by BeiwaiOnline Institute when I was first enrolled.On the cover of it,there is an eye-catching motto in both Chinese and English:


北外网院-“全人”教育的摇篮

BeiwaiOnline-Cradle of a Whole-person


At that time,I might not have a deep understanding of"whole-person education”. But once I was in this cradle, soon I was going to face new challenges in my life.


Beginning - Why I have chosen to study English at BeiwaiOnline Institute?


I had just passed my 35th birthday at the year of enrollment. I decided to pick up my English learning again that had been ignored for more than ten years since graduating from university. This decision was a direct result of my experience of embarrassment of language barriers in a foreign country on a business travel to Europe in the previous year. To solve the long-standing problem of dumb English was just one reason. The second was I had always liked literature, and learning English wiuld enable me to read English originals without barriers. The third was that I was thinking of the growth of my kid. I firmly believe that teaching by example is better than by words.

 

My colleague who had graduated from BeiwaiOnline and engaged in foreign affairs in our company recommended this program to me. I went to the headquarter to inquire about the registration requirements. After returning home, I discussed with my family, and they were very supportive of my decision. I also made a deal with my kid that we would start learning English at the same time to see who could make progress more quickly, and my first-grade kid gladly accepted it.


Challenge - Experiencing "whole-person" education: time management, lifelong learning, and self-improvement


My undergraduate major was telecommunication engineering. After graduation, I had been working in a large state-owned enterprise. My work in the past years had involved almost every aspects of telecommunication field, from engineering installation, system management, telecommunication monitoring system and data communication network construction to telecommunication system and data communication network design. The rapid development of communication and information technology required me to keep learning at work. It was this ability to learn that gave me the confidence to restart my English learning.

 

At that time, I served as the chief designer in a consulting institute. In order to catch up with the engineering design progress, I often worked overtime with my small team overnight. My husband was busier at work than me and often traveled a lot. Thus, sending my kid to school and participating in a variety of extracurricular classes naturally became my task. All this plus my daily distance learning and participating the face-to-face tutoring classes on campus every weekend had made time management crucial.

 

It was the time to improve my "whole-person" ability. With multiple roles in me, I had benefited from the idea of “whole-person” education of BeiwaiOnline that was in line with that of international education. I also had benefited from the seniors, who had taught me how to manage my time, mainly how to make full use of odds time, as well as the guide of my tutors and the supervision and support of the staff of the support center. All this had made me quickly adapt to my various roles, working hard while being happy.

 

There were new things to learn every day. Usually I practiced my English listening while driving my kid to school and then driving to and from work; I read my coursebook during the lunch break (I occasionally took a nap when I felt tired in the summer); and I learned the courseware of wrote my homework while waiting for my kid during various extracurricular classes. After tutoring the kid’s homework in the evening and accompanying the kid to bed, the remaining time was really my own study session.

 

In addition to learning courseware and doing homework during this time before going to bed, there was also an important task, which was to participate in the "Voice of Beiwaionline" (VOB in short) program. VOB was a real-time voice online classroom system developed by the Institute in 2002 for teachers and students to communicate in real-time voice. It was a great convenience for the distance learners like me, because even if we were away on business, we could participate in the program as long as we had a laptop connected to the Internet.

 

It was also a good opportunity for us to practice spoken English. At that time, a few fellow distance learners and I set up a study group in VOB, and I was also the host. Each time when we had a program, I need to choose a topic in advance for our discussion.

 

Sometimes when I was hosting a program or participating in discussion in a VOB program, my kid who wasn’t sleepy would come to me and listened to my accented English curiously and asked what I was talking about. I would shut down my microphone for a while to answer his questions, and then urged him to go to bed as soon as possible, saying that the two of us should support each other. My kid then would unwillingly yet obediently go to his room.

 

Although distance learners like me couldn t have as much time as on-campus students to practice English skills, I did make rapid progress. After my first-year learning and finishing the course module at BeiwaiOnline (a module-based design is the feature of the curriculum design of BeiwaiOnline), I signed up for the IELTS test (IELTS) at the end of the school year to know what my English learning was like. The result was an average of 6.5 points (of which 6.5 in listening, 7.0 in reading and writing, and only 6.0 in speaking).



Opportunity - a turning point in my life


What I have gained in BeiwaiOnline was not only knowledge and skills, but also friendship with my teachers and classmates. The students came from all walks of life and could learn from each other and help each other.

 

During the summer of the second year studying in BeiwaiOnline, my classmates and I had a meal with our teacher after our face-to-face tutorial. The teacher told me that he was in charge of a tow-year master s program in film, TV and media studies jointly run by Beijing Foreign Studies University and a renowned foreign country’s university. In the first school year, teachers were partly from Beijing Foreign Studies University, and partly from that foreign university (they would fly to China to teach), and after the first year, if the students were qualified for the requirements of the program, they would study abroad for another one year. He knew that I liked movies and knew that my IELTS score was also qualified for the requirement of the university. He specifically recommended me to apply for this program.

 

It was a big deal. I came home to discuss with my family. Once again, my family strongly supported me. This was also a major turning point in my life. In fact, this turning point had already begun, at the moment when I decided to study English in BeiwaiOnline.

 

The students enrolled in this study program were all born in the 1980s and graduated with bachelor degrees in English. Among them, the youngest was 17 years younger than me. My English learning starting point was the lowest and I was the oldest among (36 years old). In addition, I was originally an engineering student. These were all my disadvantages. Besides, I also had a family to take care of. All of this made me a little nervous at the beginning.

 

Of course, there was another thing that made me uneasy. It was a kind reminder from a friend. She said that a female colleague of her was sent to the UK for training for one year at her TV station’s expense. As a result, after she left for about a month (or less than a month, I couldn’t’t remember it exactly), her husband had an affair with another woman. My friend said worriedly, you now have your own flat and cars in Beijing, and your family is happy and harmonious. If everything might be gone when you come back, is it worth it?

 

Fortunately, it didn’t bother me too much. Because what she said, especially the family, was indeed what I used to defend with my life. However, I also knew that that was not the whole story of my life. Long before I had always known “you have to be empty in order to be full”.

 

Harvest – broadening my horizon and improving myself

 

Later, studying abroad had proved that my worries did not exist. During those hard and novel school days, I had not only completed my studies, but also finished my master s degree with a first-class honours (it must meet the demand of an average grade of “A-” or higher). At the same time, I did not miss my kid’s growth. In that year, I had carried heavy books and homework back and forth for more than 100,000 kilometers, and written papers of more than 100,000 characters. Of course, I did not forget to take a leisurely time to experience the local exotic scenery, diverse culture and customs, and fine wine and food.

 

I have always been interested in wine. There happened to be a famous wine region in the area. So, I took advantage of a short holiday to made an appointment to go to a winery to help pick grapes with people from all over the world (This was the first time for me to know the grape picker s English name is Picker). That time I learned how to distinguish what kind of grapes could be picked for winemaking, and I also took a tour of the winery to learn about the winemaking process. Of course, I also tried the tasty food the winery produced and tasted fine wine they made. Although it was tiring to work in the vineyard all day, I did not feel hard at all. I was always happy if I could do what I was interested in.

 

Without my English learning in BeiwaiOnline, it would be impossible for me to study abroad and did what I liked to do as such.

 

Keeping curiosity about the world and persisting in lifelong learning will make me feel that every day of life is new.

 

Therefore, whenever a friend who had not seen me for a long time asked me why I suddenly thought of quitting my job to study film, TV and media abroad, it was always difficult for me to answer, because it would be a long story.

 

Today, I take this opportunity to write down my story, which is an answer, a review and also a summary.

 

If I have to answer in one sentence, I think it should be like this: It’s all because of the choice I made at the time.

 

For a long time, I have been feeling fortunate that I had chosen BeiwaiOnline Institute because I had met a group of teachers with professionalism and broad vision there.

 

Albert Einstein once said, “Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything one has learned in school.”

 

For me, improving English skills and acquiring knowledge of English language and culture in BeiwaiOnline Institute was only part of my gains. The more important part was what Einstein called "education"-many years later, even if I forgot everything I had learned from school, I would still remember the "whole-person" education that the school had always advocated.

 

These ideas have permeated and influenced my life from then to today and will continue to do so in the future.

 

When I was writing this article, I happened to see a famous quote by Irish poet Yeats printed in the pamphlet issued by BeiwaiOnline:

 

Education is not the filling of a pail but the lighting of a fire.

 

There was also a sentence from the American psychologist Angel J.:

 

The primary purpose of education is not to teach you to earn your bread, but to make every mouthful of sweeter.

 

Looking back into my experience in BeiwaiOnline, I believe I have been well educated.

 

My sincere gratitude will always go to BewaiOnline.

 

Note:

The title of the article is quoted from a poem written by the author.


鹧鸪天.三八节书怀

2021-3-8 青玉


岁久未忘当日情。相逢自是缘美名。

一心欲识东西事,两耳静听风雨声。


桃李盛,芷兰荣。德音不忘赖传承。

又蒙师友绸缪意,独自思量感不胜。


Partridge in the Sky: Thoughts on International Women’s Day

March 8th, 2021        by Jane Zhao


My gratitude to you will not be forgotten with age.

My choice of you was a result of your prestige.

With all my heart, I am keen to see the world;

With my ears, I am eager to listen to the world.


You have sent forth so many students;

And you have cultivated a galaxy of talents.

Your ideas and motto will pass down generations.

Today I feel strong attachment to you once more,

Which makes me cannot help thinking a lot.


后来你成为牧民 赶来云海繁星

脚旁驮岁月的白驹

将漫生春草嚼咀

当你站于隆冬爱河边 俯身朝下望去

有人破冰做你 一生倒影

你会凝视他 如同另个自己

直到你的热泪都化作潮汐 爱即永恒汛期

最终你所历风雪 开遍梅花鹿背脊

落日坠成腕上胎记

来世便凭此再遇

当你仍是虔诚滋养着 参天铁树的泥

有人做撼动你 一生马蹄

你会信奉他 如同整个奇迹

直到悬河千言汇入那句——

“爱你是我的壮举。”



 
  
 
 
 



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